What can be told about friends? When we start talking about them, we are adding more and more friends in our circle. Time ticks... We may be puzzled that some of our friend has come closer to our heart and became best friend!!! That's the magic of friendship...
But a friend is also a human. Then must obvious we should remember "to err is human"! We take the mistakes committed by a friend seriously or negate it, depending on the amount of friendship built into that relationship.
Relationship between any two person can be seen like a transparent glass. It should be clear amongst the individuals and should be handled with care. Broken glass and broken friendship wounds much and makes deeper cut through the heart. Though the glass, technically speaking can be reprocessed whereas the broken relationship though can be rebuilt, but cannot be the same transparent glass. Whatever measures we put to restructure the relationship, original one never can be built. The replica hides lots and lots of things.
When we hold our tongue for someone whom we like will show how you feel strong about the relationship. Even your friend may say "One day you may ask me, who are you?". If that will not raise, then the relationship is great and such friendship is divine and should be held for all the seven lives. Some of your friend may kindle you "You will forget me in your life!!!". At that time you will feel like to yell 'No never?'... It all happens in friendship. Supposedly, If I am going to live a life for 90 years (touchwood, I am not over-confident to live 100 years), then I would love to have the friendship till the last breath.
Friendship is a bond out of nothing, its invisible like air. If you got a special friend, then you must consider yourself lucky because a special friend is one who takes care of you like a baby holding parent's hand.
Friendship is simple but complex. It is like the difference between home and house. If you keep a friend in your heart, then that friendship is equivalent to home where our beloved resides and rest is like house - a building.
You can learn a lot from friendship if you can observe your friends. They are the immediate critics, but obviously they are not your immediate available first friend.
Do you know who is the first friend available to you at any instance? It's you. Talk to yourself before any decisions you make, because you are your first friend. Then comes the special friend and other friends. Nobody can understand you better than yourself.
Practice the art of talking within you, it will always help you in getting out of the storm. Then to the friend you consider as special who can guide you. Lucky are those who has got their spouse as friend and a special friend in their life!!!
I am dedicating this post to Jigna and to the special friend(s)!!!
But a friend is also a human. Then must obvious we should remember "to err is human"! We take the mistakes committed by a friend seriously or negate it, depending on the amount of friendship built into that relationship.
Relationship between any two person can be seen like a transparent glass. It should be clear amongst the individuals and should be handled with care. Broken glass and broken friendship wounds much and makes deeper cut through the heart. Though the glass, technically speaking can be reprocessed whereas the broken relationship though can be rebuilt, but cannot be the same transparent glass. Whatever measures we put to restructure the relationship, original one never can be built. The replica hides lots and lots of things.
When we hold our tongue for someone whom we like will show how you feel strong about the relationship. Even your friend may say "One day you may ask me, who are you?". If that will not raise, then the relationship is great and such friendship is divine and should be held for all the seven lives. Some of your friend may kindle you "You will forget me in your life!!!". At that time you will feel like to yell 'No never?'... It all happens in friendship. Supposedly, If I am going to live a life for 90 years (touchwood, I am not over-confident to live 100 years), then I would love to have the friendship till the last breath.
Friendship is a bond out of nothing, its invisible like air. If you got a special friend, then you must consider yourself lucky because a special friend is one who takes care of you like a baby holding parent's hand.
Friendship is simple but complex. It is like the difference between home and house. If you keep a friend in your heart, then that friendship is equivalent to home where our beloved resides and rest is like house - a building.
You can learn a lot from friendship if you can observe your friends. They are the immediate critics, but obviously they are not your immediate available first friend.
Do you know who is the first friend available to you at any instance? It's you. Talk to yourself before any decisions you make, because you are your first friend. Then comes the special friend and other friends. Nobody can understand you better than yourself.
Practice the art of talking within you, it will always help you in getting out of the storm. Then to the friend you consider as special who can guide you. Lucky are those who has got their spouse as friend and a special friend in their life!!!
I am dedicating this post to Jigna and to the special friend(s)!!!
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