Arthanareeswarar - !!!

God forgive me, if my intention and the message I am providing is misleading. I am using a term of God Lord Shiva, referred as Arthanareeswarar also, when He shared half of His body to Lord Parvathi. I admire both, but I do have my reservation on the epic line (as per my understanding and hearing!!!). The epic line says Lord Shiva gave half of His body to Lord Parvathi, why it cannot be Lord Parvathi sharing half of her body to enlighten their followers that Shiva and Sakthi are one and one?

Many will be angry on me and they will have their doubts in their mind, whether I am worth to choose this topic? Definitely I am not worth enough to choose a topic and a little soul like me will never come up with great ideas.

Actually the topic, I chose is not related to Arthanareeswarar. But the way we Men treat our opposite gender - Women and Women treat their opposite gender - Men!!!

First instance is Arthanareeswar - Shiva indicated His devotee that both Shiva and Sakthi are one and the same. We believe and worship equally Shakti and Shiva, but why it cannot be Sakthi demonstrating Shiva and Sakthi are one and the same? May God forgive me!

I know when I thought of coming up with this topic, no one will be supporting wholeheartedly on this subject. My concern is not how Arthanareeswar is depicted in our religion but how men and women are treating themselves???

Are we treating Women fairly and whether Women themselves would like to be treated fairly? This question should be constantly asked within ourselves. I can hear murmurs too whether most women are treating men fairly??? Yes the vice versa also true...

It's very complex to understand the disparities existing between people, then why not between male and female. With the way nature has built us and webs we made to live will never bring equal ties between men and women. Then why go behind who is superior? Because each and every creations is superior by themselves. Life is not to prove who is stronger but to live happier than the yester day, the past...

Our human race or even the nature has never created the opposites to be equal, that's why the term 'Men and Women' - because they were never meant to be equal in terms of their own functionalities. Each of these opposites are superior to each other. That's why Arthanareeswarar indicated that controlling the superiority within ourselves will create equanimity that prospers our life to love and live.

That's why we cannot see any women in the world who can treat men at par and at the same time no men in this world can treat women at par. We are made with these indifferences that makes men and women to live in harmony and love. No matter whoever in this world died, lived, living and even to be born can treat both men and women at par.

If a woman tries to prove that she is superior than a man, then she is dumb and if a man tries to prove that he is superior than a woman - then he is the dumbest of all. We are not here to show off our skills and life is not about trading these skills.

So let us control the alter ego which creates superior senses amongst men and women. Let us try to remember Arthanareeswar when we think inferior about the other gender. Arthanareeswar indicated that 'no one is superior than other' or 'no one is mightier than the other' by depicting the female form in his left controlling superficial emotions and illuminate with graceful emotions rhythmic to heart beats. Because we are synchronized by the heart beats with the brain (as I think) , and any change indicates that we are loosing the rhythm. Let us follow thy nature...

Please bear with me, if any of your sentiments was touched...